You was so much better than I thought it was going to be. I know it's been hyped up ever since the first season and has gotten good ratings and reviews from nearly everyone but I still didn't think I was going to like it. I was made to watch the first season and loved it. After that I binged the rest of the seasons on my own in record time. I'm not saying it's my favorite show or even close to that but it's one of the most surprising shows I've seen. It was originally suppose to be a miniseries but is such a popular show they keep renewing it. Season 4 drops early 2023. Penn Badgley does such a great job with this character, he's very believable in being a lovable psychopath.
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Better than expected!
Supermanfan-136 February 2022
You is every bit as good as people have said it is and is pretty addicting once you start it. I've been putting off watching this since it first came out but finally found the time and now I'm mad I waited so long. For some reason I thought this was a show who's key demo was women. I was wrong. The thing that surprised me the most was how much humor is in it. It made me laugh a life more than I expected. Now, people saying that this isn't as good as Dexter are absolutely right (not much is), it isn't, but it definitely holds up on its own and thought it was overall a pretty good show. Penn Badgley does a fantastic job as the lead and Elizabeth Lail and Victoria Pedretti are both great in their roles as well. Now that I started it I can't wait for more seasons to come!
What would you do for love?
ahmetkozan19 January 2019
Warning: Spoilers
The Lifetime series, adapted from Caroline Kepnes's book of the same name, came to Netflix on November 26 and was liked by the users. The series attracted my attention thanks to Netflix. I started watching the series without much anticipation. It was very immersive and fluent. The monologues were fine. It's nice to be told the events through Joe's eyes. I think that's what keeps the series going.
The series tells the story of an obsessed perverted man falling in love with a woman. When Joe first sees Beck in the bookstore, he falls in love. We are going to see Joe's interaction with Beck, which starts with a book offering, and turns into a relationship. Joe proceeds to stalk Beck on every available social media site, quickly determining that she's the one for him. In the process, Joe is doing some amazing things. He's watching Beck's house, following every step. He goes into her house and steals her stuff, her clothes and her phone. He kills her lover, researching her friends. In doing so, he remains so calm that everything he does looks normal to the viewer. You realize you're wrong, but you don't hate Joe. Joe's problem is actually his background. His past experiences make him obsessed. Both Joe and Beck are two problematic people. "How is the relationship between two problematic people?" We find the answer to this question. Although it isn't true, Joe is doing everything for the woman he loves, Beck doing it for herself. You decide who's worse. Despite the bloody appearance, the series is not horrifying.
I found acting performances in the series successful. The soundtracks of the series was good. Colors, sounds, frames - everything works correctly on the atmosphere. Although it is simple as subject, its immersiveness increases the traceability. If you don't watch with too much expectation, I think you'll have a good time.
The series has a lot to say about our society's addiction to social media, and the dissonance between the curated images we project of ourselves online and our authentic selves. While You offers some suspense, it also offers a distorted way of looking at Joe's criminal behavior. This series is well worth watching and will make you think about your social media account. 8/10
The series tells the story of an obsessed perverted man falling in love with a woman. When Joe first sees Beck in the bookstore, he falls in love. We are going to see Joe's interaction with Beck, which starts with a book offering, and turns into a relationship. Joe proceeds to stalk Beck on every available social media site, quickly determining that she's the one for him. In the process, Joe is doing some amazing things. He's watching Beck's house, following every step. He goes into her house and steals her stuff, her clothes and her phone. He kills her lover, researching her friends. In doing so, he remains so calm that everything he does looks normal to the viewer. You realize you're wrong, but you don't hate Joe. Joe's problem is actually his background. His past experiences make him obsessed. Both Joe and Beck are two problematic people. "How is the relationship between two problematic people?" We find the answer to this question. Although it isn't true, Joe is doing everything for the woman he loves, Beck doing it for herself. You decide who's worse. Despite the bloody appearance, the series is not horrifying.
I found acting performances in the series successful. The soundtracks of the series was good. Colors, sounds, frames - everything works correctly on the atmosphere. Although it is simple as subject, its immersiveness increases the traceability. If you don't watch with too much expectation, I think you'll have a good time.
The series has a lot to say about our society's addiction to social media, and the dissonance between the curated images we project of ourselves online and our authentic selves. While You offers some suspense, it also offers a distorted way of looking at Joe's criminal behavior. This series is well worth watching and will make you think about your social media account. 8/10
Made for Penn Badgley
divyacutie13 October 2018
Second season even better!
ivanmv-0403726 December 2019
Warning: Spoilers
I can't believe I just binge-watched the whole season, with barely any pauses between episodes. I have to recover now from all day watching, but I'm also going to be mourning the end of this amazing series. Second season blew my mind. Gone Girl meets Amercan Psycho.
Season 2 is even stronger than the first one.
dina_bosma28 December 2019
Second season couldn't get any better
purple_whisper-8423227 December 2019
Warning: Spoilers
No spoilers here so I'll just discuss the concepts of this season. Love attracts and seeks the same type of love. We always think that our actions are justifiable because they're "out of love" but when someone does the same things back for us, we can finally see what is wrong with us. The female characters of this season are so powerful. We have more access to Joe's psyche. I watched this season in one day. I wouldn't have it any other way. Just WOW.
You: Not perfect, but not far off.
hanisakorvysty12 August 2022
You is a psychological drama that feels politically correct. It follows the life of a serial killer and ex bookkeeper "Joe Goldberg".
Penn Badgley was casted as Joe which I think was a perfect casting decision. Badgley makes Joe seem Sinister and imperfect, which is exactly what makes the show so intriguing.
The way the show alters by Joe's thoughts is what keeps it so raw, if it was narrated from a third person perspective, I think the show would be boring but since we are in the eyes of a serial killer, we gain interest in it.
The show also has the correct amount of violence and narration. Action isn't always occurring, which is perfect due to suspense being key in a thriller like this.
The writing is also formed in a way which makes you sometimes side with Joe, which is why Joe is such an important and interesting character.
The show isn't perfect though, there's a lot of "cheesy" aspects to the show which make it seem unrealistic despite realism being the intention.
The directors make Joe seem like the sane one throughout the seasons, which especially with his role, is not what should happen.
A lot of the cast don't get as much air time as they deserve, which is a bummer since many of them are talented actors.
Penn Badgley was casted as Joe which I think was a perfect casting decision. Badgley makes Joe seem Sinister and imperfect, which is exactly what makes the show so intriguing.
The way the show alters by Joe's thoughts is what keeps it so raw, if it was narrated from a third person perspective, I think the show would be boring but since we are in the eyes of a serial killer, we gain interest in it.
The show also has the correct amount of violence and narration. Action isn't always occurring, which is perfect due to suspense being key in a thriller like this.
The writing is also formed in a way which makes you sometimes side with Joe, which is why Joe is such an important and interesting character.
The show isn't perfect though, there's a lot of "cheesy" aspects to the show which make it seem unrealistic despite realism being the intention.
The directors make Joe seem like the sane one throughout the seasons, which especially with his role, is not what should happen.
A lot of the cast don't get as much air time as they deserve, which is a bummer since many of them are talented actors.
Oddly Uncomfortable
nevynh11 September 2018
I watched this without expectation. I hadn't heard of the book. I hadn't seen any previews or descriptions. What i found was a pleasantly dark show. It's uncomfortable and unpredictable and has what is hopefully an amazing story to tell from a unique perspective.
We're put into the head of a stalker who seems to be a hair's width away from violence. The tension is held well.
But what REALLY made it feel uncomfortable for me was a rather odd choice from the network. Swearing is censored out. There are these conspicuous blanks in the dialogue. It had me obsessing. When you've got a show this dark, who the hell do they think they're going to offend with a little swearing? Are they expecting kids to be up watching it? It's content is far more offensive than swearing could ever be.
Apart from that one VERY annoying point, it's a brilliantly put together show. I'm looking forward to watching more (though I'll probably find myself swearing at the TV about the missing dialogue).
We're put into the head of a stalker who seems to be a hair's width away from violence. The tension is held well.
But what REALLY made it feel uncomfortable for me was a rather odd choice from the network. Swearing is censored out. There are these conspicuous blanks in the dialogue. It had me obsessing. When you've got a show this dark, who the hell do they think they're going to offend with a little swearing? Are they expecting kids to be up watching it? It's content is far more offensive than swearing could ever be.
Apart from that one VERY annoying point, it's a brilliantly put together show. I'm looking forward to watching more (though I'll probably find myself swearing at the TV about the missing dialogue).
3 is irritating
KiddNicole5239022 October 2021
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Season 1 and 2 were fantastic. I'd say it's like 9/10 for those but the 3rd season was just so irritating. Like Joe wants to find someone who will accept everything that he is and Love is LITERALLY made for him, but he's pissed because she kills too?! Like wtf you do the same thing man! How can he be so hypocritical?!
Do you love him or hate him?
sophiabeitzel1 January 2019
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This is probably one of the only shows that has made me feel confused as to whether I love or hate the main character Joe Goldberg. While he is a stalker, very creepy, and a murderer, he also has this charm about him that is just so alluring! It also gives me a bit of Dexter vibe, especially since you know everything he's thinking. Penn Badgely does such a great job at portraying Joe! It can have some very uncomfortable parts but I would recommend this show to anyone!
First 3 seasons were great, but season 4?
tripleainto18 February 2023
I found the first three seasons to be very captivating and I was really looking forward to Season 4.
Unfortunately Season 4 (part 1) has been a challenge to get through. I just can't relate in anyway to this friend group he has gotten into so quickly, and not sure how anyone can get attached given their attitudes.
Truthfully this 4th season part 1 is just plain boring as a result. If you end up not really caring for the characters or connecting with them, then what does a show leave you with?
But let's not forget seasons 1-3 (particularly season 1!). That era demonstrated excellent writing, wild plot twists and just an all around excellent viewing experience. 6 out of 10 overall as a result.
Ps. Update - oh boy part 2 of season 4 is even more unfortunate.
Unfortunately Season 4 (part 1) has been a challenge to get through. I just can't relate in anyway to this friend group he has gotten into so quickly, and not sure how anyone can get attached given their attitudes.
Truthfully this 4th season part 1 is just plain boring as a result. If you end up not really caring for the characters or connecting with them, then what does a show leave you with?
But let's not forget seasons 1-3 (particularly season 1!). That era demonstrated excellent writing, wild plot twists and just an all around excellent viewing experience. 6 out of 10 overall as a result.
Ps. Update - oh boy part 2 of season 4 is even more unfortunate.
Season 4 is trash
tyom-harutyunyan11 March 2023
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Season 4 just ruined everything this show had before. How can you possible kill so many people in 21st century and not get caught, LOL. I think Netflix just creates this superhero character for Joe to keep him alive and in freedom to create more rubbish seasons. The other new characters very also very boring and without any charisma too. How can we go from Season 3 Love to Season 4 Kate who for me is absolutely cold character without any interesting features. I know they will create more seasons but I also know I will not watch them for sure. I really liked the first 3 seasons but season 4 just took my interest out of this Tv series.
What exactly is this?
dehdar27 December 2018
Warning: Spoilers
It's perverted in so many ways. You find this poor, lost female student struggling to find her way through life. She's not doing well and she doesn't have any trustworthy person she can lean on or ask for help.
Then she meets a charming, intellectual and well mannered guy, who makes her life better in every aspect. Ohh yeah, he also murders every parasite in her life.
Here's where it gets perverted. You find yourself puzzled because you won't be able to determine, if you root against her sicko knight in shining armor or hope he gets away with more than he deserves.
It's intense and there's never a dull moment. I loved every part. I only have 10 minutes left, which I'm going to watch now :)
Then she meets a charming, intellectual and well mannered guy, who makes her life better in every aspect. Ohh yeah, he also murders every parasite in her life.
Here's where it gets perverted. You find yourself puzzled because you won't be able to determine, if you root against her sicko knight in shining armor or hope he gets away with more than he deserves.
It's intense and there's never a dull moment. I loved every part. I only have 10 minutes left, which I'm going to watch now :)
"Should I?" or "Shouldn't I?"
nancyldraper21 February 2019
This is a "Should I?" or "Should I not?" kind of a series. From the pilot, we know the protagonist is definitely sociopathic, maybe even psychopathic. Is this an anti-hero we can get behind? But, there is just something about it that makes you want to watch one more episode... and then you find the first season is over! This is well written, well performed, addictive and, well, disturbing. I give the series an 8 (addictive) out of 10. {Dramatic Crime Thriller}
Freaking. Excellent.
sam-braco11 September 2018
great series apart from some careless moves
davish_wulf-130 June 2022
Great series, reminding me of the iconic "Dexter".
Acting is top notch, specially from Penn Badgley, completely unknown to me, but capable of portraying the complex, lethal and sensitive character of Joe.
Victoria Pedretti on seasons 2 and 3 was just perfect. Quite a rollercoaster of great acting here.
All 3 seasons delivered, with enough twists and last episode chaotic situations, that left me thinking "how the hell he's he going to come out of this" on the last episodes.
I was very sceptic at first, specially due to some avoidable and quite dumb out of place pseudo-erotic mb scenes, but I kept the faith and was not disappointed.
Strong points: the twists, chaotic situations, unpredictable moves and pace, all with wonderful acting through and through.
Weaker points: imbecile erotic out of place moments (thankfully not many), terrible soundtrack that does not amaze or stay in the head (sorry) and dumb moves from Joe (and not only): not using gloves, using the same hat to hide himself (ala Clark Kent with his eyeglasses) and less attention to detail when we know he could be caught by doing the same mistakes over and over again.
But... it's a great series nonetheless. If you loved "Dexter", it's not on par, but delivers, in a more "modern", less careful way and sometimes even a bit more chaotic in the situations where Joe puts himself on.
Season 1 great, Season 2 good, Season 3 great again (don't understand the hate, really).
Acting is top notch, specially from Penn Badgley, completely unknown to me, but capable of portraying the complex, lethal and sensitive character of Joe.
Victoria Pedretti on seasons 2 and 3 was just perfect. Quite a rollercoaster of great acting here.
All 3 seasons delivered, with enough twists and last episode chaotic situations, that left me thinking "how the hell he's he going to come out of this" on the last episodes.
I was very sceptic at first, specially due to some avoidable and quite dumb out of place pseudo-erotic mb scenes, but I kept the faith and was not disappointed.
Strong points: the twists, chaotic situations, unpredictable moves and pace, all with wonderful acting through and through.
Weaker points: imbecile erotic out of place moments (thankfully not many), terrible soundtrack that does not amaze or stay in the head (sorry) and dumb moves from Joe (and not only): not using gloves, using the same hat to hide himself (ala Clark Kent with his eyeglasses) and less attention to detail when we know he could be caught by doing the same mistakes over and over again.
But... it's a great series nonetheless. If you loved "Dexter", it's not on par, but delivers, in a more "modern", less careful way and sometimes even a bit more chaotic in the situations where Joe puts himself on.
Season 1 great, Season 2 good, Season 3 great again (don't understand the hate, really).
Season 4 is a Bust
TimMath-545-33358023 March 2023
The first two seasons of this show are strong. Season 3 is up and down. Season 4 is almost ridiculous. The problem with this shows is that it takes the story sideways to extend its natural length. Season one and two are fresh and interesting. From then on, you can almost see the writers scratching out ideas and crossing them out to make the show live on. By season 4, the show is a parody of itself, recycling plot points, going into soap opera territory. Terribly disappointing by the end. It's really hard to stop watching a show after you've invested so much time into it. Naturally, you want to see how it ends. This show ended long before it died a dismal death.
A surprisingly really good Thriller
Kingslaay11 January 2020
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The synopsis and description does not do this show justice. I was captured by its darkness and intrigue from the start. So many reasons why this show worked well. In a bizarre and strange way the viewer can relate to Joe and his frustrations. We also see things from his point of view. Goes without saying his actions and behaviour is despicable but a crazy realisation is that Joe is in all of us. We all stalk other people's social media accounts behind the scenes. The only difference is Joe is prepared to go full throttle and act on his sociopathic tendencies. This is why he is such a fascinating character.
Season 1 and Beck. Season 1 does a great job of showing how flawed, selfish and messed up the modern young girl can be. Benji despite being a flawed person himself understood what she really was and shared this truth with Joe. Joe was blinded by infatuation and his idea of the perfect soulmate. He was even willing to overlook her cheating because she 'loved' him. Nobody deserves to die but I didn't care much for Beck and did not miss her at all.
Season 2 and Love. We saw a damaged and broken girl who was much better match for Joe (Will). A great season that sadly had its fair share of disaster because lets face it Joe attracts it like honey. Love totally surprised us.
I don't see why they didn't end the show after season 2. It should be a mini-series. Season 1 and 2 flowed well and made sense but how to go on after this? Joe seems to have found a similar person that is as peculiar as him. Yes he can continue his usual habits with a new girl but it could have ended like that. He's not on the run anymore. Alas I will keenly watch season 3 when it comes out.
Season 1 and Beck. Season 1 does a great job of showing how flawed, selfish and messed up the modern young girl can be. Benji despite being a flawed person himself understood what she really was and shared this truth with Joe. Joe was blinded by infatuation and his idea of the perfect soulmate. He was even willing to overlook her cheating because she 'loved' him. Nobody deserves to die but I didn't care much for Beck and did not miss her at all.
Season 2 and Love. We saw a damaged and broken girl who was much better match for Joe (Will). A great season that sadly had its fair share of disaster because lets face it Joe attracts it like honey. Love totally surprised us.
I don't see why they didn't end the show after season 2. It should be a mini-series. Season 1 and 2 flowed well and made sense but how to go on after this? Joe seems to have found a similar person that is as peculiar as him. Yes he can continue his usual habits with a new girl but it could have ended like that. He's not on the run anymore. Alas I will keenly watch season 3 when it comes out.
Used to love it
dourpussdora27 March 2023
First 3 seasons were amazing. I loved it. S4 is just so boring. I really want to like it but all the characters are so unlikeable and the storyline is awful. Kate as the love interest?? . I just didn't get it. To go from the other women he was obsessed with to her makes no sense what so ever!. She had no redeeming qualities at all and had the personality of a mop.
Im Only on episode 6 and and would really love to finish what I started but I find myself drifting off or looking at my Phone and that's when I know it's lost on me.
I hope there is a s5 and it's back in the USA and has more interesting characters because this is utter gash!.
Im Only on episode 6 and and would really love to finish what I started but I find myself drifting off or looking at my Phone and that's when I know it's lost on me.
I hope there is a s5 and it's back in the USA and has more interesting characters because this is utter gash!.
Season 2 is quite good
miriklein200327 December 2019
Season 1 was okay, entertainable. Didn't like Beck at all though.
Season 2 is more mature and Love is a great character (great actress). The season is more thrilling and the story isn't that cheesy. Really enjoyed it!
Season 2 is more mature and Love is a great character (great actress). The season is more thrilling and the story isn't that cheesy. Really enjoyed it!
Season 3 is repetitive and predictable
fahadsiddiqui-5918229 November 2021
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I've been watching this show since season 1 and quality of the content, storyline has gone down considerably since 1 season when I got totally hooked immediately. Funny how Joe and his partner in crime Lovr keep killing people throughout the neighborhood and keep getting away in season 3. Story gotten dull , repetitive and predictable.
Season 4 has ended it for me
SuzsuzQ16 March 2023
Sadly, I feel each season was not quite as good as the one before with this series. Season one - absolutely LOVED it. The story; the characters; the acting.
Season two was very good as well. For me, not quite up to the first, but still incredibly enjoyable to watch.
I feel that I sort of forced my way through season three because at that point I felt pretty committed to the show. I certainly didn't hate it, but it was not even close to season one as far as enjoyability.
So then comes season four. I couldn't even make it through the first episode!
I'm not saying I expect total believability from a series such as this, but when I saw that Joe was working as a college professor at a UK university, I totally lost it. I mean, really? Wasn't there any other profession they could have chosen for him? The idea that he would be able to get a job at that level is absolutely ridiculous and downright impossible. Impossible.
And from what I've read, the writers did it purposefully, which makes it even worse. This is from an article I read while researching to make sure I didn't miss the episode where Joe got his PhD, or even his college degree for that matter:
"It turns out that You author Caroline Kepnes and showrunner Sera Gamble have been hoping to put Joe in this setting for quite some time. "We've known for years that we wanted to eventually put him in a university," Gamble told Entertainment Weekly."
I get that Joe got himself a new identity for season four, but again, I can literally guarantee that he would not be able to land a job such as this. Even with a brand new identity.
It's fiction, so of course they can do what they want, but I think this is just plain dumb. And annoying.
I know it probably sounds trivial to some, but it's freaking lazy on the part of the writers. And if that's how lazy they want to be with something so simple, I just don't feel compelled to invest any further time here.
It was good while it lasted for me...
Season two was very good as well. For me, not quite up to the first, but still incredibly enjoyable to watch.
I feel that I sort of forced my way through season three because at that point I felt pretty committed to the show. I certainly didn't hate it, but it was not even close to season one as far as enjoyability.
So then comes season four. I couldn't even make it through the first episode!
I'm not saying I expect total believability from a series such as this, but when I saw that Joe was working as a college professor at a UK university, I totally lost it. I mean, really? Wasn't there any other profession they could have chosen for him? The idea that he would be able to get a job at that level is absolutely ridiculous and downright impossible. Impossible.
And from what I've read, the writers did it purposefully, which makes it even worse. This is from an article I read while researching to make sure I didn't miss the episode where Joe got his PhD, or even his college degree for that matter:
"It turns out that You author Caroline Kepnes and showrunner Sera Gamble have been hoping to put Joe in this setting for quite some time. "We've known for years that we wanted to eventually put him in a university," Gamble told Entertainment Weekly."
I get that Joe got himself a new identity for season four, but again, I can literally guarantee that he would not be able to land a job such as this. Even with a brand new identity.
It's fiction, so of course they can do what they want, but I think this is just plain dumb. And annoying.
I know it probably sounds trivial to some, but it's freaking lazy on the part of the writers. And if that's how lazy they want to be with something so simple, I just don't feel compelled to invest any further time here.
It was good while it lasted for me...
CREEPY BUT EXCELLENT
nicolamcd-2394414 January 2019
Wow.. I loved this! Had no idea what I was getting myself into as I never read the book or heard anything of it. I finished it in 2 sittings. Penn played this part BRILLIANTLY! He convinced me to love him at times yet hate him at others. Honestly couldn't recommend it enough. Each episode something more creepy and messed up happens yet you just need to keep watching!
Totally ruined by Season 3
sarah-ameera199318 October 2021
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Why did they have to go ahead and make a third season? The "crime and punishment" ending in season 2 was just fine. Why did they have to turn Love into a bloodthirsty beast who doesn't stop for a single second to think about the consequences of her actions? I understand it's all part of the "psychopath" agenda they were trying to sell, but most of her actions were utterly unjustified and uncalled for even if we take her being a psychopath into account. Also, did she have to go and have an affair with a teenager? And don't even get me started on the ending. Joe gets away with it. AGAIN. I guess that should've been predictable given that they were trying to paint him as the "better guy" in that preposterous relationship they had.
I honestly was a huge fan of seasons 1 and 2, but I'm very disappointed and I wish this season was never made. That's just embarrassing.
Update: Season 4 was a WIN. I changed back my rating to 9. I'm glad they made another season because it totally saved the show!!
I honestly was a huge fan of seasons 1 and 2, but I'm very disappointed and I wish this season was never made. That's just embarrassing.
Update: Season 4 was a WIN. I changed back my rating to 9. I'm glad they made another season because it totally saved the show!!
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