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7/10
Gritty
Rrrobert13 August 2019
Well done story. Mary befriends Joanna (Mary Frann) who rear ended her car. Joanna and Mary seem to socialise a lot and Rhoda feels discarded. (Joanna also seems to conveniently keep forgetting to pay for the damage to Mary's car, so we know something is up from the start... also, Phyllis likes her.) When Mary tries to include Rhoda, Joanna's anti-semitic beliefs are revealed.

According to a trivia item on this site the producers said in interviews that this was "one of the worst" episodes and that "everyone involved in the episode agreed it fell flat and was tonally way off-key for the series."

Actually the story is well crafted and well played. It isn't really off-key either. Not super heavy on laughs and crazy comedy, but a good story. Mary's bit when she confronts Joanna is very well done. Far from the worst episode of the series.
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8/10
Bigotry Comes to Mary
Hitchcoc4 February 2017
When a young woman hits Mary's car from behind, they quickly develop a friendship. She is attractive and cultured. Soon they are doing things together, and Rhoda begins to be left out. There are tennis and lunch and other things. Of course, Phyllis encourages this relationship. But as things develop there is something about Rhoda that this woman finds objectionable. This is a more serious episode. The newsroom characters don't have a lot to say. There is one funny bit when Ted tries to come on to Mary's new friend and gets shot down. This is one of those times when you get to know who your real friends are, even if you take them for granted.
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5/10
Some of My Best Friends Are Craven, Misshapen Polemics
darryl-tahirali6 April 2023
As part of the new generation of 1970s American television situation comedies that consciously broached social issues, making a significant break from 1960s escapist fare, "The Mary Tyler Moore Show" embraced feminism with its focus on thirtysomething Mary Richards, a single woman starting a career in television news while still trying to find a romantic partner.

But unlike Norman Lear's string of similarly-minded sitcoms ("All in the Family," "Good Times"), whose pronounced social commentary was central to their narratives, this gently satiric workplace comedy weaved its editorial viewpoints into its storylines with, if not subtlety, then at least with a lack of stridency.

At least until "Some of My Best Friends Are Rhoda," whose very title, a play on the bigot's stock excuse for prejudice ("some of my best friends are (fill in the blank with the appropriate target)"), leaves little to the imagination. Steve Pritzker's clunky script attempts to be coy about its maladroit reveal, which only makes the hammer clang even more discordantly when it does drop.

Moreover, the cast, which by this point in the series' run, the end of its second season, had meshed into an appealing unit that interacted with a nearly seamless rapport, appears ill at ease with the material as it affects a staginess that suggests unfamiliarity or else a lack of direction from Peter Baldwin (who had already directed a half-dozen episodes), although Ed Asner simply plays up his crabbiness with his Lou irritably storming to and fro. Ironically, Valerie Harper, whose Rhoda is the "appropriate target" for the bigotry, is the only one able to play it naturally.

The die is cast from the start when Mary enters her apartment with Joanne Forbes (Mary Frann), who had just rear-ended Mary's car, and immediately their chemistry feels forced. Pritzker's characterization of Joanne is hardly artful--to settle up the damage to Mary's car, she asks if she can pay Mary directly instead of engaging her insurance company as she'd been in another accident recently; throughout "Some of My Best Friends," Mary has to tactfully remind Joanne about the money she owes her. Mary Tyler Moore's easy engagement is noticeably absent, replaced by an artificial manner that softens only slightly as the episode wears on; meanwhile, Frann's polite coolness toward Harper, once Rhoda comes in to deliver the comedic interlude, manages not to give the game away. At least for now.

Pritzker's narrative devices--Mary and Joanne belonged to the same sorority at their respective colleges; they both play tennis--establish the basis for a new friendship, one that delights Phyllis, impressed by Joanne's membership in a tony tennis club, although Rhoda, who does play tennis with Mary, soon becomes the odd one out in a series of seeming snubs that smack of obvious contrivance; at one point, as a harried Murray answers Mary's office phone and relates her whereabouts to Rhoda, which will only compound Mary's apparent disregard for their friendship, gasps from the live studio audience can be clearly heard.

And when the big reveal finally arrives, it delivers perhaps the most leaden thump of the series' seven seasons, with Moore displaying a side of Mary Richards hitherto unsuspected while crudely underscoring the ham-handed message that lands with all the delicacy of a hurtling pig crashing to Earth. Unnaturally performed and artlessly crafted, like community theater preaching a message of religious intolerance, it is painful to watch if only out of empathy toward Moore and Frann, saddled with a symbol and not a character, making even the title of "Some of My Best Friends Are Rhoda" sound like a craven, misshapen polemic.

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4/10
Lackluster,lazy writing and episode
ronnybee211230 July 2020
Warning: Spoilers
This episode is not without it's bright spots. We get to see MTM and 'Joanne' in impossibly short tennis outfits,which is a nice treat.

The lady that plays 'Joanne' is listed as Mary Frann,which is hard to believe,as I would never peg her as the same actress that played Newhart's wife on the second Newhart TV series,to me she looks like a different lady.

(See what you think about it,as I wouldn't wager either way) Other than that,and a little light humor/comedy,the show is awfully boring. The Joanne character does not much care for Rhoda,and when a situation arises that would involve using Rhoda as a sudden replacement in the doubles tennis game,Joanne balks.

Joanne says that Rhoda might not feel welcome at the tennis club because she is a jew.

(I don't know of any tennis clubs that make the guests fill-out a questionnaire about their religion as a condition of entry,so the whole issue seems rather forced and phony I say.)

Mary is upset by hearing this, and even briefly claims to be a jew herself,just to test the reaction of Joanne. That is a bit much,denying jesus for Rhoda,but I say good for Mary for sticking up for her pal Rhoda.

Mary is a loyal friend.

(That there is about 90% of the episode) I also consider,on the other hand,the Rhoda character is quite obnoxious, pushy,and annoying, and it is not that much of a stretch at all to think that Rhoda indeed might have problems at the small tennis club, regardless of her religion.

I love MTM show but this has to be one of the bottom 3 worst episodes. They really bombed on this one,I wonder,I mean really wonder how in the heck this happened?

(This show is best when it sticks to being funny,leave the tiresome lectures on social issues to Maude.) 4/10.
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1/10
You put the wrong episode here -- It's Season 2 Episode 19 - More than neighbors
evoholly8 January 2022
Wish people would check before they post incorrect episodes, so people waste time looking for them. The episode I mentioned is the one where she makes friends with a lady named Joanne after Joanne back ends Mary's car. Joanne turns out to be anti-Semetic. Please correct this error. Again, the episode that should be being reviewed here is "More than Neighbors". Some of my Best Friends are Rhoda is when they are roommates because Rhoda's apartment burned.
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