The writers wanted to change Toby's personality, I don't know why. I liked how his and Kate's relationship started. They were both in a bad place and helped each other out of it. Toby had a lot more work with Kate. She was self hating and obsessed with her weight. She couldn't manage to have the least bit of fun, but Toby helped her through that. I think it's because he loved her as she was. That's why I don't understand why the writers would want to break apart that relationship. They're a family with kids. It's so wrong!
And Phillip (or whatever his name is) is super boring and forgettable too!
And Phillip (or whatever his name is) is super boring and forgettable too!