I have to agree that the performances and direction in this film are excellent, and at times it's humorous and quite engrossing. But by the end of the film I just couldn't forgive the main character for her incredible selfishness. The final straw for me was when she made no attempt to be with the man who had really loved her while he was dying, and instead walked around all night staring up at his hospital room seemingly focused only on herself and her feelings. It's disturbing how many people reviewing this film on IMDB are finding ways to excuse this woman's narcissistic behavior in order to call this a great film, and I'm almost certain that if the main character had been male they would instead be denigrating him. It's rare for me to walk out of a film feeling depressed, but I certainly did in this case.