Rebecca's two ten year wedding anniversaries are presented, neither which goes according to plans. In the earlier one to Jack, the two are going out for a romantic and expensive dinner, the first time Rebecca has been treated to such since the arrival of the Big Three, who are at home with a sitter. Without telling Jack beforehand, Rebecca plans to party-hearty, all in the prelude to what is the much anticipated sexual encounter to cap off the evening when they get home. In the current day one to Miguel, Kate and Toby are hosting a barbecue, with Rebecca and Miguel's friends invited, and Randall and Beth coming out from Philadelphia for the occasion. While they don't want it to happen, Kate and Toby may not be able to curb what for them has been the norm of something small leading to an argument eventually veering to the touchy topic of Toby wanting the family to move to San Francisco. A disaster and a potential tragedy kibosh the occasion, the potential tragedy which will either tear Kate and Toby further apart or bring them back together. Through it all, Rebecca can see what she considers a seminal moment in that earlier anniversary as a central theme of the latter. Meanwhile, Kevin learns something which makes him contemplate making another rash decision, this time concerning Madison.
—Huggo