In one sentence she says people often asked me why didn't you just leave. I had a daughter and another child on the way and yet in the next sentence she says Cedric had a better paying job yet contributed nothing to the bills. So what was his use then. Even with him there you were still a single mother. I wish women like this would be honest with themselves. Yes they were abused but they stuck around because they love these menand think they will get better and love them. Having a man like this around is not only bad for you but selfish cause you are not even thinking of your own children and they have to grow up with trauma because of your choices. This woman saw the red flags from the beginning. Her parents did not like the boy because he ran with all the wrong crowds and she liked the appeal of dating an older bad boy. The abuse is not on you but you should have chosen wisely not only for you but your kids. She also cheated on her finance and left him for that thug because "she could not imagine herself in Japan" for real lol who is she trying to fool. She liked the appeal that he was still chasing her even after she had a baby and in another relationship. It probably made her feel special. There was no reason for her to have met up with that man in his car if she had supposedly moved on as she likes to say. I will bet with the new relationship too there were signs and now that poor boy has to live with the trauma of watching his entire family get murdered cause the mother probably ignored signs.