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(1986 TV Movie)

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7/10
The story of a woman who couldn't bear going through life without being needed.
mark.waltz21 January 2022
Warning: Spoilers
Sometimes the person you perceive to be your worst enemy is the person who will save your life or give you the will to live, and that's the case for Farrah Fawcett to her mother-in-law Colleen Dewhurst. From the time Dewhurst meets Fawcett, she perceives her to be competition, and certainly, her son Michael Nouri has really had enough of his mother and desperately wants to cut her out of his life for good. But like any loving son, he just can't, even when she shows up at their door on their honeymoon. She is an absolute hideous controller, not just for her son, but for her loving husband (who has put up with her Shenanigans for years, and finally dies when he has had enough of them), her daughter-in-law and her grandchildren. She causes seemingly kind-hearted comments Fawcett's way, but there is always a dig underneath them. There have been many mothers-in-law like this on TV, screen and stage, and Dewhurst is probably the most aggravating, and not even in a lightly amusing way.

As Avery Brown, Murphy's mother, Dewhurst was exactly like this but in a comical way, and in one of her most profound moments said that her biggest fear in life was walking into a room filled with people and not being noticed. That could be said for her character of Barbara here, a truly sad woman who was once a great opera diva but has lost everything outside of her family that she found dear. She is obviously used to being queen bee, and when she can't sting a rival female bee, she has to find other ways to strike. It's only when she has a stroke and is dependent on others that she begin to see the light, and it's obvious that her own constant interference and non-stop involvement has taken a toll on her.

One of the great stage actresses of the 1960's and 70's, Dewhurst could unintentionally command your attention simply by walking into a room. The character of Barbara is a very charming woman, but suffering from a type of mental illness that does not have a diagnosis. She is equally matched by Fawcett who is surprisingly able to match her step-for-step. Their relationship is fascinating to watch, all the way at times, you feel like you're peering into someone's kitchen window and shouldn't be there. But it is inevitably a story of humanity and caring about someone even though they had been absolutely rotten to you. It's that unselfishness that makes this story well worth seeing, with performances that truly stand the test of time.
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Great story of love and hate
Chief Yo20 September 1998
This is probably the best I have ever seen Farrah Fawcett act in any tv series or movie. I am not a great follower of Ms Fawcett but she has come a long way since Charlie's Angels. I do have to give her credit she really carried this movie with her acting abilities and not her looks.
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9/10
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guypaul-213 January 2009
The film does explain the cause of Dewhurst's overbearing nature and there is resolution to the story, though to be more specific than that would be to "spoil." I agree that the tension for most (but not all) of the picture is grueling, but the end product is one of the most realistic portrayals I've seen of what it is like to provide in-home care for a family member. I was glad that the characters weren't Hollywood-obvious "good" and "bad" and that the plot wasn't tied in a neat and tidy (tiresome and clichéd) manner. The choice of opera in the soundtrack and the inclusion of W.B. Yeats poem, "The Second Coming" is especially powerful.

There's a lot between-the-lines here too about vulnerability in the guise of brashness, masking insecurity with micro-management, and how the sins of one generation are spilled to the next. This is a film worth watching several times.
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9/10
Excellent little seen drama
steveH2O1 May 2001
This is a touching very realistic drama about a woman caring for her dying mother in law.Colleen Dewhurst is superb and Farrah Fawcett is as good as she was in "The Burning Bed"'Not widely known but is definitely worth a look.Very well done and not the least bit sappy and quietly effective study of losing a loved one.
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5/10
TV drama about in-law interference...well-acted but somewhat agonizing
moonspinner5514 November 2017
Lovers Michael Nouri and Farrah Fawcett can't get any time together alone because of his wheedling, overbearing mother (played to the hilt by Emmy-winner Colleen Dewhurst). This monstrous mama, a perfectionist who comes between her son and his wife on more than one occasion, is at times a fascinating character--but a little of her goes quite a stretch. The lovebirds get very few romantic moments together, and it isn't long before Fawcett realizes Dewhurst is never going away and that husband Nouri is unable to stand up to her (he matches wits with his mother but can never win an argument). When Farrah finally blows off some steam, it's a relief to us--and yet the wife's sudden surge of spunk is immediately shot down, and soon we're back at the beginning. There's a great deal of realism in these family arguments and personality clashes, and the acting is uniformly terrific, but this kind of issue movie doesn't entertain as much as it leaves viewers in knots.
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9/10
This was a bittersweet movie
elizabeth-913 September 2019
It was hard to like the great Colleen Dewhurst's character in this movie, but her worth to Farrah Fawcett's character was endearing. This was a good movie. It was sweet. There is a scene where she plucks the whisker out of her stroke-victim mother-in-law's chin...a woman that tormented her, but she wanted to be the better person. No, that's not right, she didn't want to be better, she wanted to be a good person. She was.

Farrah Fawcett was a good actress remembered for an icon poster and Charlie's Angels. Ultimately, she was a good actress.
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The responsibilities of life are often difficult but can have great rewards.
rubies_canada-16 April 2009
This movie, though I saw it when it first came out has never left me. It is often difficult to minister to those we do not care for but we find that our responsibility for them and our guilt take over and we "do what we have to do". The scene where Amy is removing the hairs from her mother-in-laws chin is so powerful it still evokes tears when I think about it. I think that this is the turning point for them both and I feel that they accepted one another then. I have had the responsibility of looking after my father-in-law for a short time and my remembrances of this movie have helped with my own struggle with that time. The rewards of that experience will never leave me.
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Superb Colleen Dewhurst
drednm4 November 2017
There was a time when the television networks made movies, small films that would never have been made by the big studios for theatrical release. This is one of those movies, and though it's a small story about human relationships it looms large in the wondrous performances of Colleen Dewhurst and Farrah Fawcett.

Dewhurst plays a former opera singer, a grand dame who lives in a picture-perfect rural Connecticut home with her husband (Steven Hill). She's about to welcome her son (Michael Nouri) and to meet his new girlfriend (Fawcett). She instantly dislikes the young woman.

The story then details the "family" relationships over the next 14 years years but centers on the changing relationship between the women. As the years tick by, they get to know each other better but their relationship remains prickly. It's only after Dewhurst suffers a stroke that they begin to move toward the center of their enduring bond and recognize it for what it is.

Dewhurst never lets this get cloying or overly sentimental, and Fawcett turns in a gritty performance as the determined younger woman. Nouri and Hill are fine. Bronson Pinchot has a cameo as a wedding photographer.
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This movie was carefully crafted, a gentle master work worth catching if you can; it is one of those rare gems that inspires without sappiness or a sledgehammer
gofish9115 December 2002
This quiet movie worked for me. I have never seen the potentially explosive, often confusing relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law addressed so sensitively--or at all, come to think of it. Every character was believable, even the children. Watch for the subtle history lesson the son communicated with just a few words and body language in the dinner table scene. This movie was carefully crafted, a gentle master work worth catching if you can (I saw it on Lifetime). It is one of those rare gems that inspires without sappiness or a sledgehammer. In the end, we are left wanting to pick up the phone and appreciate the people in our lives, no matter how difficult they are, even when it doesn't seem to make sense.
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