Has three daughters: twins Aliannah Hope "Ali" Simms and Aleeah Grace Simms (b. December 16, 2009) with ex-husband Corey Simms; Addalyn Faith "Addie" Calvert (b. February 4, 2013) with ex-husband Jeremy Calvert.
Miscarried her future 3rd child and 1st with her fiancé Jeremy Calvert. (January 2012)
(November 25, 2014) Filed for divorce from her husband Jeremy Calvert after 2 years of marriage.
In August 2022, Messer announced her engagement to Jaylan Mobley after a year of dating.