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Reviews
Great Photo, Lovely Life (2023)
Realistic dysfunctional family doc
I felt that the doc portrays exactly how thousands of dysfynctional families get through lifetimes of abuse. Trying to keep secrets that just end up destroying them from the inside and sadly repeating generations. Secrets are an abusers best weapon. I noticed religion placing forgiveness as more important than holding perps accountable seemed to really stunt healing for some here. Many people use that way of dealing with hardship. To place it all in God's hands to deal with..but I say that gives the secrets more power and perps the privilege to continue on their merry way without confrontation. This film highlights how people can mix together(and confuse) the true love and trust children have for a parent (grandparents) with the ill-willed abusers demands for "love", respect. Sexual abuse, secrets and then abuser gaslighting were the main dysfunctional features for this family. I felt we peeked over their wall of secrets and gained some useful insight. I applaud her for shining light into a very dark corner. Was she therapeutic? She tried- but not really. She was realistic and raw. I'm actually shocked she was so brave and vocal- considering the women of her family being so sheepish and controlled. Was there a perfect "accountability bow" on the whole package in the end?... no. She did try, but such is life...messy without the big happy ending sometimes. And it's OK to not be OK. There WAS progress for healing in some and discussion for our awareness and for that- An Absolute Triumph. *Unhide secrets. Talk!! Hold abusers accountable. *
The Affair (2014)
Very much an emotional rollercoaster...in a good way
Different viewpoints in all directions is a big win for self analysis and teaching (especially in this day and age) there isn't just one way to see the world and the people in it. I loved the whole series- including the theme song.
Trafficked (2017)
Much kudos to this movie highlighting sex slavery
This movie is a glimpse into what goes on in the multi-billion dollar business of sex trafficking worldwide, yes including America. Much like a Lifetime movie, the acting can be average at times and the storyline slow... but kudos to this movie highlighting the gigantic, barely spoken about bc it's an uncomfortable issue (of children, teens and women/men being trafficked for the enjoyment of men to use and discard) As you sit on your couch scrolling through IMDB to decide what movie you feel like watching.. this one won't likely win an Oscar but it may win over some supporters of those suffering. Ps: Very few "make it out" of sex slavery... That's why the story reflected that.